It is a very interesting phenomenon that your husband becomes soft during ovulation, but it may also cause some trouble.

When men feel soft and wet, it usually marks them entering a state called "hardness." Hardness refers to the hardness and elasticity of a man's penis when he penetrates a woman. However, in some cases, men may experience tenderness rather than arousal.

If a man feels tenderness when penetrating a woman, it could be due to a number of factors. This may include fatigue, lack of exercise, anxiety or stress, and the consumption of certain drugs or alcohol. In this case, men may need to rest, exercise, reduce stress, and avoid certain drugs or alcohol.

On the other hand, if men feel tender but not aroused or satisfied, this may be a sign that they need to seek other support and stimulation. In this case, men can engage in sexual activity with other people or try other types of sexual activity, such as oral sex or masturbation.